Love That Sacrifices

True love in marriage isn't just a feeling - it's a choice to put your spouse's needs above your own desires. This sacrificial love mirrors how Christ loved the church, giving Himself completely for her benefit. For husbands, this means actively seeking ways to serve, protect, and honor their wives, even when it's inconvenient or costly. It's choosing to listen when you'd rather be heard, to comfort when you need comfort yourself, and to prioritize her wellbeing over your personal preferences. This kind of love creates an environment where wives feel safe, valued, and cherished. When a woman experiences this consistent, selfless love, it naturally draws out her respect and admiration. Sacrificial love isn't weakness - it's the strongest force in a marriage. It builds trust, deepens intimacy, and creates a cycle of mutual blessing. Every act of selfless love deposits into the emotional bank account of your marriage, creating reserves you can draw from during challenging times.
'Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.' - Colossians 3:19